2018 Reading List
- Multiply Your Business
- 15 Laws of Invaluable Laws of Growth
- Do It Now
- Archetype Guide
- Give and Take
- Sacred Contracts
- Your Gameplan
- Getting Noticed
- Gameplan, Harnisch
- Gameplan Workbook
- Heal Your Body
- Fearless
- Aroma Freedom Technique Quick Start Guide
- Charka Healing
- Notes from a Friend
- Breaking Free from Emotional Eating
- The 4-Year Career
- The 4 Agreements
- Angel Numbers 101
- Gemstones A-Z
- The 5th Agreement
- Aroma Freedom Technique
- It’s Not How Good You Are, Its How Good You Want To Be
- Go-Giver Leader
- Go Giver Influencer
- Vitality Life
- The Secret History of the World
- Discipline Equals Freedom
- Water Crystal Healing
- You Can Heal Your Life
- The Crystal Wisdom
- The Blue Sword
- Smudging & Blessings
- The Gifts of Imperfection
- A Course In Weight Loss
- Strong Mothers, Strong Sons
- The Alchemist
- Mothers & Sons
- Going Veggie
- The Essenes, Children of the Light
- A Little Bit of Auras
- Be the Miracle
- A Little Bit of Astrology
- Oola: Find Balance in an Unbalanced World
- Om Yoga
- The Whole Brained Child
- Sacred Earth
- Balance: Oola Gameplan
In 2017, I set a goal to read a book a month. I did it, but just barely. Some months I had to catch up and ended up reading a book in a week or a weekend. Once I realized I could do a book a week, they why spend four weeks doing it? So for 2018 I set a goal to read a book-a-week. Yep. I went from barely reading 12 books-a-year to 52.
It was a goal that forced consistency — without it, catching up was going to be a lot more complicated then it had been when I could squeeze in two books in a month. Not only did the books bring enlightenment but the sheer audacity of the goal did, too.
In 2018, here are all the books I read.
Yep, I only read 48 books.
And believe me, it was an experience that December. I had included this goal into my day-job performance goals, so not only did I have myself to answer, but my manager as well. No, I don’t like not achieving goals. I’ve been an over achiever and to have “failed” in not reading 52 books really irked me. Before the Christmas holiday, I tried to give myself grace. So I wasn’t going to spend my vacation stressed reading 12 books — but it was hard to not “win” and do it. In the end, I read eight of the twelve outstanding books. In January, I felt disappointed in myself. I could have done better. I agonized over what to write in my day job yearly review. The last four books haunted me. For months.
And finally it hit me.
I was focusing on the wrong thing.
I was focusing all my mental and emotional energy on the four books that I didn’t read, instead of the amazing (yet surprisingly doable) feat of reading 48 books in a year. Seriously, I had gone from having trouble reading 12 books in a year to crushing it with 48. Now think of the growth that came with that. I read, learned and grew in 3 months what I had previously done in one year. At the book-a-week pace — even not “finishing”, I had grown four times more than I had year over year. And yet I kept my attention on the four I didn’t read.
I was focusing on what I didn’t do instead of what I did do.
How often do we do that?
Focusing on the love we don’t have, instead of the love we do.
Focusing on the friends, money, things, job, peace, joy, body that we don’t have, instead of what we do have.
Where in your life are you focusing on the four instead of the 48?